<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Relationshift]]></title><description><![CDATA[Relationshift]]></description><link>https://www.thesoblemethod.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 02:13:38 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.thesoblemethod.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Normal Shabbos]]></title><description><![CDATA[Why Can't We Just Have a Normal Shabbos Meal? I cannot tell you how many times I have heard this question. Ouch. 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The sun is setting over Yerushalayim as a young mother lovingly places her 10 month old into the pack-n-play in a...]]></description><link>https://www.thesoblemethod.com/post/help-my-husband-never-helps</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6350467338a712f89e9b71a9</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2022 14:35:53 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Hindi Kalmenson</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[It’s not what you say, it’s what you Believe]]></title><description><![CDATA[We create with our thoughts, words, and intentions. When I first learned this skill it seemed silly. 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I didn’t like myself much so I assumed that my husband...]]></description><link>https://www.thesoblemethod.com/post/insecurity-and-conditional-value</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63125702c77700e70715d0a1</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2022 19:47:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/deca99_07bf6b333f374c53bab0926042463714~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Relationshift</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Old Mindset &#38; The Shift]]></title><description><![CDATA[The old mindset: My well-being used to depend on things that were outside of my control.  If my husband gave me what I needed, I was OK....]]></description><link>https://www.thesoblemethod.com/post/the-old-mindset-the-shift-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">631258eb42186564a0410820</guid><pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2022 19:47:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/deca99_1ac8fd1b238a4f66b3a5ce27b9c65526~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_999,h_670,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Devoiri Greenberg</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What is your G-dly soul?]]></title><description><![CDATA[A Poem What is your G-dly soul? 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Your husband...]]></description><link>https://www.thesoblemethod.com/post/how-to-stop-an-argument-mid-sentence</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62e41db7a2d65972dcf2af8b</guid><pubDate>Fri, 29 Jul 2022 17:54:06 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Relationshift</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How To Feel Hurt Less Often]]></title><description><![CDATA[A formula that we could practice that would help us feel less intensely hurt when our husband says something that feels mean or...]]></description><link>https://www.thesoblemethod.com/post/how-to-feel-hurt-less-often</link><guid isPermaLink="false">61b3b52fbf0e250017bcf094</guid><category><![CDATA[Marriage Tips]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2021 20:14:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/deca99_a704c90a04984f95845b66553d8cec03~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Menucha Schochet</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>